"It's not about what you wear, it's about how you wear it." - Lil from Coyote Ugly
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Last weekend, my girlfriends and I had one of those unforgettable nights that make you fall in love with life all over again. We threw together a Coyote Ugly-themed bar crawl, decked out in the fiercest of Y2K-cowgirl fusion looks. Everyone was vibing, the beats were flowing, and it was the kind of night where you remember why girls’ nights exist. And guess what? It wasn’t anyone’s birthday, bachelorette party, or engagement celebration—just a bunch of beautiful women getting together to have fun, laugh, and make memories.
The theme was inspired by none other than Coyote Ugly—yes, that iconic early 2000s movie where bar dancing on countertops was basically a rite of passage. We followed a planned route (loosely followed, as all the best nights go), starting at El Camino for margaritas. After taking in some bold flavors (guava habanero, anyone?), we bounced around to various hot spots, but skipped Johnnie Brown's because, well, Florida humidity has no chill. That’s the magic of a themed night: it’s adaptable and fun without pressure.
And for the record, the night didn’t have a “boys allowed” sign on it, but the focus was definitely on the group—because you don’t need to be single or chasing guys to have an epic time out. This group was the perfect mix of relationship statuses. From married, engaged, to single-and-loving-it, there was one common theme: letting loose and loving life with your girls.
I broke out my Sony Alpha 6100 digital camera to capture some incredible moments at our last stop, Bounce Sporting Club. These weren’t your typical forced “we’re-having-fun-for-the-gram” shots—no, the laughter was real, the joy was real, and when I look back at those photos, I’m reminded of why nights like these matter. Sometimes, going out feels like a chore, but when the vibe is right, it’s absolutely worth it.
The Power of Themed Girls' Nights: It's Not Just for Special Occasions
Here’s the thing about themed nights—they’re not just reserved for bachelorette parties or someone's birthday extravaganza. We’re all about celebrating life, love, friendship, and the good times that come in between. And it doesn’t have to be elaborate. In fact, I highly recommend a themed girls' night for your next outing, just for fun. No need to wait for a milestone event.
Themes are the perfect way to spark creativity, get excited about the night ahead, and bond over figuring out “what to wear.” Because let’s be honest, half the fun of going out is putting together an outfit that’s on-theme and fire enough to turn heads.
Some of the Best Themes to Try for Your Next Girls’ Night:
1. Coyote Ugly:
Vibe: Y2K meets cowgirl. Think denim, boots, hats, and bold colors. And yes, extra points if someone ends up dancing on a bar.
Clothing Recs: A fringed leather jacket, high-waisted denim shorts, and a crop top. Don’t forget cowboy boots (comfortable but stylish). Pair the outfit with chunky hoop earrings and a mini bag.
2. Spice Girls:
Vibe: Channel your inner Sporty, Scary, Baby, Ginger, or Posh. This theme is perfect for groups because you get to showcase everyone’s personality while still being a cohesive group.
Clothing Recs: Platform shoes are a must. Get into velour tracksuits (Sporty), leopard print (Scary), Union Jack mini dresses (Ginger), metallic skirts (Posh), or pink satin (Baby).
3. Rockstar Night (a.k.a. “Headliners & Groupies”):
Vibe: You’re either the rockstar or their biggest fan. Think leather jackets, band tees, skinny jeans, bold makeup, and tons of attitude.
Clothing Recs: A moto jacket, ripped black jeans, fishnet tights, combat boots, and dark eyeliner to complete the look. Go for comfort with chunky platforms instead of stilettos for a full night of fun.
4. The Devil Wears Prada:
Vibe: High fashion, chic, and a dash of office glam. You and your squad will feel like you just walked off a catwalk in Paris.
Clothing Recs: Oversized sunglasses, a crisp button-down, a pencil skirt, and killer heels. Mix up high-end pieces with statement accessories for that editorial look. A sleek ponytail is a must.
5. Sex and the City:
Vibe: Glamour with a side of cocktails. Grab your Manolo Blahniks and favorite clutch because you’re channeling Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte, or Miranda tonight.
Clothing Recs: A tulle skirt (Carrie-style), a classic little black dress, strappy stilettos, and a designer bag. Just remember: if you’re doing a bar crawl, comfort is key.
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Don’t Forget the Shoes!
If you’re going all-out on a theme, let me give you one pro tip: comfortable shoes are non-negotiable. Whether you’re bouncing from bar to bar or just planning a long night of dancing, don’t ruin your evening with stilettos that hurt two hours in. There are so many chic alternatives—think platform heels, wedges, or stylish ankle boots that give you height without sacrificing comfort.
It Doesn’t Have to be a Bar Crawl—But It Should be Fun
Let’s make one thing clear: your girls' night doesn’t have to involve hopping from bar to bar. Some of us didn't drink at all during our night out. Themed nights can be just as fun at a house party, a movie marathon, or even a weekend getaway. The point is to dress up, laugh, and enjoy each other’s company. And honestly, there doesn’t even have to be alcohol involved. It’s all about the memories, the pictures, and the shared experience.
Themed girls’ nights are all about intentional fun, where the process of planning is as enjoyable as the night itself. And yes, if you’re going out with your significant other, they can join in too. Trust me, some guys love a good excuse to dress up and be out.
A Quick Note About Drinking Responsibly:
This article is in no way promoting alcohol consumption. If you’re planning a night out and alcohol is involved, please make sure to arrange transportation like an Uber, Lyft, or a taxi service. Drink responsibly, know your limits, and never drink and drive. It’s always a good idea to have a designated driver or use a rideshare app to ensure everyone gets home safely. Also, remember that alcohol consumption at events is only suitable for those who are 21 and older.
Themed girls’ nights are all about celebrating the bond between friends—whether that’s with a bar crawl, a house party, or a movie marathon. There’s something magical about coordinating outfits, letting go of stress, and just being present in the moment with the people you care about most. So go ahead—plan that next theme night and make memories that you’ll be laughing about for years to come. Cheers to friendship, fun, and celebrating life’s little moments.
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